People are ashamed but never satisfied, animals are satisfied but never ashamed, and criminals are neither embarrassed nor satisfied.
Propriety, righteousness, integrity, and shame are the four pillars that make up humanity.
The most terrifying person is one who has no shame and is still self-righteous.
Timing is key in communication. Knowing when to speak a kind word and when to withhold a harmful one is a fundamental skill that can greatly enhance our interactions with others.
We must learn not to interrupt or babble but to think before speaking. This will enable you to become more considerate and better spoken.
We must never put ourselves in a position where we regret speaking out of a desire to show off and end up saying the wrong thing. It is important to remember that it is impossible to unsay what you have said.
Once water is spilled, it cannot be retrieved.
It is especially important to be careful when engaging in workplace communications. Work is often stressful, and if you give in to that tension and react inappropriately, you may be demoted or fired.
人是知羞不知足，
動物是知足不知羞，
禽獸則不知足亦不知羞；
禮義廉恥人之四維，
最可怕的人就是不要臉還理直氣壯；
人與人之間溝通是件很重要的事，
在適當的時候，
說出一句漂亮的話，
也在必要的時候，
及時打住一句不該說的話；
我們必須學習不要急著說、
不要搶著說，
而是要想著說，
絕對不要逞口舌之快而後悔，
因為說話是沒有橡皮擦、
沒有立可白的，
不能再把話擦掉，
潑出去的水收不回的；
特別在職場溝通中，
一定要學習情緒忍受力和挫折容忍力，
因為脾氣來了，
福氣就沒有了！
